Divorce is a difficulty and confusing time. If children are involved, it can be especially trying. Many parents are fearful of not seeing their children and do not understand how child custody is determined. Here are some answers to frequently asked questions about Child Custody in Concord NC.
What factors does the court take into account when determining custody?
The court will look at many factors including the child’s age, sex, and health. They will also look at the health of the parents, their lifestyle, and their emotional bond with the child. The court will take into account the ability of the parent to provide food, shelter, clothing, and medical care. In general, the court focuses on the parent’s ability to provide the child a stable, loving environment. If the child is older, the court will also take into account the child’s preference.
Is the court more likely to award custody to the mother?
In the past, courts generally favored the mother for custody. In recent years, this has been abolished. Courts are required to award custody based on the child’s interest. Do not let gender deter you from seeking custody if you desire it.
If we share joint legal custody, do we always have to agree on decisions?
The basics of joint legal custody say that both parents have the right to make decisions. This also means either parent can make a decision alone. However, it is highly recommended that parents with joint legal custody communicate often and discuss decisions together.
If I move out and leave the children, will it hurt my chances for custody?
The general consensus is yes. Even if a parent leaves to avoid a dangerous situation, leaving behind the children allows the court to assume that you believe the other parent is a suitable choice for custody. If you must flee the home it is strongly advised to take the children with you. In addition, you must file for temporary custody as soon as possible. If the other parent goes to court first, they can claim the children were taken without their consent. This can also reflect negatively in a custody dispute.
If you are concerned about Child Custody in Concord NC and would like more information, contact Seth B. Weinshenker. He can answer all your questions and assist in any custody issues you may have.