Whether an expected or unexpected death happens in the family, it will be an emotionally draining time for family and friends. Lots of people will express their condolences, lots of people will want to attend the funeral, and you may be surprised that lots of people will want to be involved in helping to plan the service. Everyone has their own opinions, but it’s important to limit the funeral planning to immediate family members only. Otherwise, the process can be overwhelming, and arguments may occur among extended family. That being said, it is very important to include all immediate family members in planning efforts, unless people choose not to help or there is a valid reason why someone should not be permitted to help. Involving immediate family will prevent problems from occurring among these family members and will ensure that everyone feels valued in the process. Even if a sibling ran off to another country and never visited in years, or did something to hurt other family members, each immediate family member is or has been an important part of the life of the deceased individual and should be included.
Actions to Pursue Together
1. Choosing a funeral home. When searching for a funeral home in Deland FL, visit at least a couple of different options and spend time talking with the funeral director to discuss possible services and offerings.
2. Choosing a minister. If the deceased individual attended church and had a minister, definitely use that minister for the funeral service. If not, determine if anyone in the family (including extended family) is a minister and could perform the duties, or discuss a viable alternative, such as using an immediate family member’s minister.
3. Planning the service. The funeral home will help you plan funeral home services in Deland, FL, but think about any particular readings or songs you may want in the service. Think about your loved one that has passed away and what he or she would most enjoy.
4. Fulfilling the will. The will should be shared with all immediate family members, who should work together in making sure that it is fulfilled and that property is divided according to the loved one’s wishes. A probate lawyer can help in such matters, especially if there are any grounds for disagreement among family.
5. Handling other legal affairs. Together, immediate family members should discuss who else needs to be notified of the death, including banks, government agencies, employer(s), and other entities.
6. Applying for benefits. There are many benefits that could be due to heirs, including insurance proceeds, pension or income benefits, and other financial contracts.
7. Paying final bills. Make sure to pay all final bills on behalf of the loved one who has passed, including property and income taxes, and explore methods for protecting against financial fraud.
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